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A first-person account

Timeline

The relationship, periods of separation and renewed contact, and the events that followed.

2014
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Contact over the years

I have described Lorenzo coming in and out of my life from 2014.

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2016
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Facebook contact and a proposal

I said Lorenzo found me on Facebook and proposed. I declined and blocked him.

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December 2018
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A marriage application

We registered to marry. I later withdrew that application.

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21 January 2019
Supporting record

An incident dated in the later police report

An initial report dated 3 February 2019 records a report of partner violence on 21 January 2019 at 06:10. This is the event date recorded in the document, separate from the reporting date.

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3 February 2019
Supporting record

An initial police report and bilingual form

The supplied initial police report is dated 3 February 2019, alongside a bilingual pre-declaration form bearing the same date.

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10 August 2019
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Our marriage

Lorenzo and I married in Copenhagen, Denmark.

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6 November 2019
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The assault and arrest I reported

I described punching and kicking, police intervention and Lorenzo’s arrest.

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2020
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Seeking protection

I sought a protection order and described appealing in an effort to obtain distance from Lorenzo.

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July 2020
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First separation

Our first separation did not end all later contact or cohabitation.

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7 September 2020
Supporting record

An additional statement to police

The supplied receipt and additional statement record a complaint and further account given at Sartrouville. I described photographs, videos, fear of providing them and alleged knife threats and blows.

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2021
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Speaking in a video interview

I said I gave a video interview about the abuse in 2021. The media page contains the link I previously shared.

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29–30 March 2021
Supporting record

The period covered by the threats complaint

The receipt issued on 30 March records alleged threats during the period from 29 March at 13:52 to 30 March at 00:22.

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30 March 2021
Supporting record

A complaint concerning repeated threats

The supplied receipt, initial report, statement pages and additional report document a complaint and recorded account given to Paris police.

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October 2021
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A return to cohabitation

My account is that Lorenzo returned to live with me.

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August 2022
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Another return

I described a further period of living together.

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22 September 2022
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The end of our final cohabitation

This is the final cohabitation date I have given. I also identified it as the last date of physical violence.

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December 2022
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Later contact before my departure

I described him crying in my arms before I left France. This was later contact, distinct from cohabitation.

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30 Jan–3 Feb 2023
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Divorce discussions

My case bundle identifies messages about lawyers, fees, signatures and divorce arrangements.

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7 April 2023
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An email seeking to finalize the divorce

I wrote about finalizing the divorce and supplied an American address that I have described as a mailing address.

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17 July 2024
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An explicit message exchange

The supplied WhatsApp screenshot bears this date and includes both incoming messages and my replies.

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18 July 2024
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Messages referring to an existing video

The supplied screenshot contains a reference to an intimate video. Its creation and sharing circumstances are not established by the exchange alone.

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2 August 2024
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Further requests to resolve the divorce

My bundle identifies messages in which I sought progress and Lorenzo said he lacked money for a lawyer.

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20–22 January 2025
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Requests for contact details

There were references to a letter and a cheque, and communications involving family members. I say these did not inform me of divorce proceedings.

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19 May 2025
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The start date identified in my complaint

My later complaint gives this date for the introduction of divorce proceedings. I say I was not informed.

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10 July 2025
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The disputed separation declaration

My bundle identifies CARNI statutes recording separation since 29 July 2020. I dispute that as the date of definitive separation.

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13 September 2025
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Contact and a complaint I contest

My records identify direct contact around this date. I also contest a harassment and blackmail complaint against me dated 13 September.

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17 April 2026
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The divorce judgment date

My bundle identifies this as the judgment date. I say I learned of it later and had not participated.

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12 June 2026
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My formal request for information

I asked Lorenzo to confirm any proceedings or judgment and provide the relevant documents.

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17 June 2026
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My lawyer’s letter

Maître Grâce Favrel requested his lawyer’s contact details with a view to an amicable resolution.

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Further events will be added as their dates and supporting records are organized. The story contains the account of events that are not yet dated here. Read my story